Bad habits!

Bad habits are things that are gross or not acceptable in public. Some examples are nail biting, nose picking, hair sucking, thumb sucking, etc. There are ways to try and get rid of them.

Nail biting: keep hands busy at times when you are bored(sit on hands?) or there is a special nail polish to keep you from biting and finally you can ask your mom or do it your self to clip your nails every few days.

Nose picking: keep hands busy:sitting, tapping,etc.

Thumb sucking: keep hands away from mouth or keep them busy and when sleeping, keep hands away from mouth and there also is a special thing to put around your thumb to make you stop.

And most of all............... have perseverance! if you try really hard to reach your goal it just might be achieved!

Baby! You're a baby!!

Everyone has some thing they treasure higher than anything else. Yours could be a doll or a piece of jewelry. But some people have things they treasure from when they were younger. A blanket is one example. But some people say its baby like to have a blanket. Well, this teasing can hurt your feelings. If it really hurts just say you don't like them calling you names. If you don't feel comfortable with that, you can laugh a little at them and say something like'' you know how much i treasure it''. And don't try and give up your blanket if you don't want to. You'll know when your really ready to give it up! And remember, its ok to have a blankie!

You're lazy... and you're mean... Not Fair!!!

If you look at someone and judge or sort them by what they look like or do for a living is a stereotypical judgement. An example is if you see a Blondie and you assume that they are dumb because of their hair color. That is really mean, and you must try to not do that. Would you want someone to see you and assume you're lazy or mean? A way to try and not stereotypically judge someone is to think about someone you know like that and say ''are they dumb?''. You won't think of people like that anymore if you keep thinking of others you know like that that aren't like that. If that doesn't work for you try and get to know someone you think is dumb or lazy because of the way they look or what they do for a living. You will see that stereotypical judgements aren't nice or fair or TRUE!!! You shouldn't judge a book by it's cover!

Do you need help?

I have been writing about the most common and obvious problems. If you have your own problem please post it on any of my posts. I would love to help solve your problem!

Give up?!

Giving away things is really hard. But you need to give up somethings, 'cause there isn't room for it all. Try and give away things you don't use. Still to hard? Answer these questions to see if this item in your mind is really worth keeping

• Do you use it every day?



• Have you used it lately?



• Is it in nice condition?



• Are you not able to buy a new one if you end up needing it later?

If you answered mostly no, then this item is probably not that special or needed. You are safe on giving it away. And if you want it back, buy a new one! And any way, when give this stuff away the new owner might find it more useful to them than it was to you!

Friend bully!

Do you have a friend bully? Well, a friend bully is a friend of yours who is a bully to others, and sometimes, even you. Friend bully's can bully you into bullying people too. Friend bully's can be a big problem. You may really like your friend, even if they bully you, but you probably hate bullying. So your torn between the two. You think if you stand up to your friend they might bully you, so you go on his or her side. This can make a bully stronger. You have to stand up for whats right. So if you have a bully friend, next time they try and harm you or someone else, stand up to them. Each person who stands up deletes one bully group!

Switch!

Switching schools!! I'm gonna miss my bffs! Switching schools is a hard thing. You'll be leaving people you like a lot and that you have been with since, WHO KNOWS! But it can also be a nice thing. Meeting new people and learning new learning techniques and the ways of different schools. In my mind, its like practice for life. Someday you will leave your first school when you go to high school or college, and maybe your job. But i know what really bothers you, fitting in. You think if you don't ''fit in'' you'll be bullied. Well, i won't lie, new kids are picked on quite a lot. But, if you hold your head high and just say hello, you'll be making friends soon enough! The kids at your old school liked you, why shouldn't these!(if you do end up as a bully's target, see my other post about bullying)And you can still see your friends at your old school too!!