School Problems

Sometimes school can be difficult for many reasons, and it may affect your grades and your parents may get angry with you. The cause of this may be bullying, not being able to pay attention in class, or just not understanding the material. It's hard to endure mean comments or getting lost in math equations or a history book. But to get through the hard years of school, you'll need friends, parents, teachers, to believe in yourself, and stay positive. Here are the ways to solve your different problems:

1. If you are being bullied in school, you first should try to ignore the bully and not let their mean or untrue comments hurts you. If it continues, then you should tell the bully to stop because what they are doing is wrong. Finally, if they are still not finished with their rudeness, ask a teacher or parent to help. Note that asking for help from a teacher will not make the situation worse as most people believe. Teachers will be sure to help you avoid the bully, and your situation can get a lot better.
2. If you have a problem with paying attention, go to a teacher or parent to help you find ways to learn other than sitting in a classroom. Find websites online that can improve the way you learn. When you are in school, try to find something that helps you pay attention, like maybe find a smooth stone and play around with it while you listen so you don't feel as bored.
3. If you do not understand what the teacher is teaching then go to the teacher for extra help. Find worksheets online to help you, and if a test comes up, study in a way that is comfortable for you. If you still cannot understand, find a tutor who can help you with your school work and help you understand.

Believe and pursue your dreams, and when times are dark try your best to achieve your goals! You can do anything you put your mind to, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

Halloween Contest Winner!

OMG I forgot about my contest!!!! I have just been so busy I never go back to it! But I had the winner decided before Halloween, that counts... RIGHT!? JK, anyway, her is the winning comment!

I say that Ally, her mom and her friends should try to work out a compromise, because that is ALWAYS the best thing to do! If the compromise doesn't work Ally should just tell her friends what her gut feeling tells her, because that is ALWAYS the best too! I say if your BEST FRIENDS don't work with what you feel is best in this kind of situation, then they are not your BFFS! EVERYONE'S priority should be that Ally is SAFE! Who knows what could happen on Halloween!

CONGRATS KEL! YOU ARE THE WINNER! Thanks everyone who joined, and have a wonderful week! Kel I will get your prize ASAP!

THANKS!

Halloween Contest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YIPEEEEEEE

YAY! I haven't had a contest in a LONG TIME! For this contest, give advice for this problem:

Ally wants to go out trick or treating with her BFF's. Her friends want her to come with them, WITHOUT HER MOM, but Ally's mom wants to come along to make sure she is safe. Ally would like to have her mom, but thinks trick or treating by herself would be fun. And Ally is afriad that her friends will make fun of her and say she is a scardy cat!;(

Comment on advice for Ally by October 31st and you will receive a PRIZE!!!!!!!! Good luck to anyone who enters! 

Sincerely,

Becoming Confident

Some people are born shy, very shy. But others are born fearless and full of confidence. Good friends support you when you need it, and that can always make you more confident. But sometimes if there is no friend around to help. When those hard and lonely times come, tell your self all of these things:

• Your an amazing person! Don't let an audience or a bully make you think otherwise!
• You can do anything if you try your hardest!
• Even if you don't win or get a standing ovation, the best thing is that you tried your hardest and that's the most you can ask for!
• You have family and friends who, even if they aren't here right now, support you with all their heart!

So shut out that voice who is telling you you can't do or it you'll make a fool of yourself and refresh your brain with positive thoughts that will make you and your peers happy and confident! Winning or losing isn't your game, your confidence and happiness is!

New Blogger!

One of my good friends just started a new bog! Check it out!:):):)

http://chocolate-cow-phia-fun-zone.blogspot.com/

Also, my sister Crystal made some blogs!!! Check them out as well!

http://crystal-biglife.blogspot.com/

http://makingwritersbelieve.blogspot.com/

Enjoy!

Fightin' Friends:(

What do you do when you get into a fight with your BFF? Well today I am going to give you some tips on how to handle a fight, how to avoid a fight, and how to end a fight!

• Don't give your friend the silent treatment- Without communication, how will you ever solve the problem?
• LISTEN! This is probably the most important. Don't say what you want to say and ignore your friend because maybe you are wrong.
• Try to compromise- If you want to go to the park but your friend would rather go to a movie, suggest if you could maybe go to a movie in the park!
• Don't ask other people to take sides in the argument. It's best just to keep it between the one you are fighting with

And guys, remember BFF's can't stay angry forever, right? When you make up, you'll think that the fight you had was the silliest thing ever! But sometimes, even the silliest thing can be made into a really big deal if you don't handle it right!
Have a good day!:):)

Do YOU need to "Ask Kate"?

Hey this post is here so you guys can comment on a problem you have or something that you think would be good for others to get advice on. I'm all ears. The original reason I made this blog was for me to give advice to people who commented. So just comment under here and I will make sure I give you the advice you need!