School Problems

Sometimes school can be difficult for many reasons, and it may affect your grades and your parents may get angry with you. The cause of this may be bullying, not being able to pay attention in class, or just not understanding the material. It's hard to endure mean comments or getting lost in math equations or a history book. But to get through the hard years of school, you'll need friends, parents, teachers, to believe in yourself, and stay positive. Here are the ways to solve your different problems:

1. If you are being bullied in school, you first should try to ignore the bully and not let their mean or untrue comments hurts you. If it continues, then you should tell the bully to stop because what they are doing is wrong. Finally, if they are still not finished with their rudeness, ask a teacher or parent to help. Note that asking for help from a teacher will not make the situation worse as most people believe. Teachers will be sure to help you avoid the bully, and your situation can get a lot better.
2. If you have a problem with paying attention, go to a teacher or parent to help you find ways to learn other than sitting in a classroom. Find websites online that can improve the way you learn. When you are in school, try to find something that helps you pay attention, like maybe find a smooth stone and play around with it while you listen so you don't feel as bored.
3. If you do not understand what the teacher is teaching then go to the teacher for extra help. Find worksheets online to help you, and if a test comes up, study in a way that is comfortable for you. If you still cannot understand, find a tutor who can help you with your school work and help you understand.

Believe and pursue your dreams, and when times are dark try your best to achieve your goals! You can do anything you put your mind to, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise!

Halloween Contest Winner!

OMG I forgot about my contest!!!! I have just been so busy I never go back to it! But I had the winner decided before Halloween, that counts... RIGHT!? JK, anyway, her is the winning comment!

I say that Ally, her mom and her friends should try to work out a compromise, because that is ALWAYS the best thing to do! If the compromise doesn't work Ally should just tell her friends what her gut feeling tells her, because that is ALWAYS the best too! I say if your BEST FRIENDS don't work with what you feel is best in this kind of situation, then they are not your BFFS! EVERYONE'S priority should be that Ally is SAFE! Who knows what could happen on Halloween!

CONGRATS KEL! YOU ARE THE WINNER! Thanks everyone who joined, and have a wonderful week! Kel I will get your prize ASAP!

THANKS!

Halloween Contest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YIPEEEEEEE

YAY! I haven't had a contest in a LONG TIME! For this contest, give advice for this problem:

Ally wants to go out trick or treating with her BFF's. Her friends want her to come with them, WITHOUT HER MOM, but Ally's mom wants to come along to make sure she is safe. Ally would like to have her mom, but thinks trick or treating by herself would be fun. And Ally is afriad that her friends will make fun of her and say she is a scardy cat!;(

Comment on advice for Ally by October 31st and you will receive a PRIZE!!!!!!!! Good luck to anyone who enters! 

Sincerely,

Becoming Confident

Some people are born shy, very shy. But others are born fearless and full of confidence. Good friends support you when you need it, and that can always make you more confident. But sometimes if there is no friend around to help. When those hard and lonely times come, tell your self all of these things:

• Your an amazing person! Don't let an audience or a bully make you think otherwise!
• You can do anything if you try your hardest!
• Even if you don't win or get a standing ovation, the best thing is that you tried your hardest and that's the most you can ask for!
• You have family and friends who, even if they aren't here right now, support you with all their heart!

So shut out that voice who is telling you you can't do or it you'll make a fool of yourself and refresh your brain with positive thoughts that will make you and your peers happy and confident! Winning or losing isn't your game, your confidence and happiness is!

New Blogger!

One of my good friends just started a new bog! Check it out!:):):)

http://chocolate-cow-phia-fun-zone.blogspot.com/

Also, my sister Crystal made some blogs!!! Check them out as well!

http://crystal-biglife.blogspot.com/

http://makingwritersbelieve.blogspot.com/

Enjoy!

Fightin' Friends:(

What do you do when you get into a fight with your BFF? Well today I am going to give you some tips on how to handle a fight, how to avoid a fight, and how to end a fight!

• Don't give your friend the silent treatment- Without communication, how will you ever solve the problem?
• LISTEN! This is probably the most important. Don't say what you want to say and ignore your friend because maybe you are wrong.
• Try to compromise- If you want to go to the park but your friend would rather go to a movie, suggest if you could maybe go to a movie in the park!
• Don't ask other people to take sides in the argument. It's best just to keep it between the one you are fighting with

And guys, remember BFF's can't stay angry forever, right? When you make up, you'll think that the fight you had was the silliest thing ever! But sometimes, even the silliest thing can be made into a really big deal if you don't handle it right!
Have a good day!:):)

Do YOU need to "Ask Kate"?

Hey this post is here so you guys can comment on a problem you have or something that you think would be good for others to get advice on. I'm all ears. The original reason I made this blog was for me to give advice to people who commented. So just comment under here and I will make sure I give you the advice you need!

Kate Challenges: Our Winner

Today is the last day for Kate Challenges. And I have our winners!!!! The Winners of the Kate Challenges are: ARI AND CRYSTAL! Congratulations Ari and Crystal for doing such a great job! They completed every Kate Challenge right away and its amazing. They really deserve to win. Their prize is a panda stuffed animal and a note from Kate!!! Congrats, Congrats. You deserve to win!

Get your Craft ON!

Summer always seems so fun once school is over, but after a while, you get BORED! You don't know what to do, and you end up wasting your summer. Well, today, I am going to give you idea's for making crafts!!! I love to make different things and try new idea's. Here some things that you guys should try out:

• Jewelry making(earrings, bracelets, etc.)




• Sewing(start out by making a pillow, and soon you'll find yourself making a little doll!)




• Knitting(Start from the beginning, and make your way to the top!)




• Felting(This is a very interesting craft my sister finds very fun!)




• Crocheting(Also great for giving as gifts)




• Painting(Let your heart onto the paper)




• Writing a book for little siblings to enjoy!(Its great to think of others)

The possibilities go on forever, but these are things that I love to do! And after you have made so much stuff, what do you do with it? give them as gifts, or open a business! Get creative, and make your summer fun! Just take my advice, and don't sit inside playing on the computer, get into art and make it fun!

Just Ask KATE!

KATE CHALENGE: Make one of the above crafts, and if you can, post the picture of it on your blog, or give it to me. It would be really great if I could get the picture if possible:)

Enemies are People Too

Is there someone that when you see them, you just get SO ANNOYED? Are they mean or rude to you? Well, if this is true for you, for one momment consider their feelings. Even the people you dislike have feelings. I understand if they bully you, or act rude and mean, because there are people I dislike as well. But usually people are like that because they don't have any friends, or nobody is nice to them. My advice to people who have someone picking on them, or someone who just plain bothers you, is take a deep breath, go to go up to them, and nicely say hi. Ask them about their day, or compliment them. You may realize you were totally wrong about them, and they have many things in common with you. So don't judge someone to quickly, even if they did hurt your feelings, the same thing could have happened to them.

Show some love!

KATE CHALLENGE: Take my advice, and get to know someone you dislike a little bit more. Some people will never change sadly, but tell me how it goes, and you will have another Kate Challenge finished!

New Faces and Old

Making new friends can be challenging and keeping old friends is even harder. Sometimes you'll get into fights over silly or serious things that can break up your friendship forever. When you and your friend are in a fight I suggest that you talk to your friend instead of the silent treatment. You don't even know why she's upset do you? And does she know why you are? NOPE!!! You have to talk it out together and try to understand him/her. Next time your best friend from since preschool gets into a fight with you remember what you have read.

And now you all may want to know hats a good strategy for meeting new people and getting to know them and maybe even become their friend is. The best place to go and make new friends is a new activity. Take a cooking class, sign up for a sports team, audition for a play, or join an art club. Do something you will enjoy because most likely the people around will like some of the same things you do. Once you're in a friendly and comfortable environment, look for someone who is alone, because you will be less nervous and they are likely to also need a friend. After you find someone you want to talk to, the rest is simple: Say "Hello my name is....." and THAT'S how it all starts. Just keep the conversations going and try to meet up with him/her other places. Soon you've got a friendship you both will treasure!

Happy Friendships,

KATE CHALLENGE: Start a new activity, or one where there is new people to meet, and make a new friend. Or you can also call an old friend of yours that you don't get to talk to often. Try to remember all the good times you had together and how much you missed talking to her!

About the Kate Challenges

I have decided to make the end date for the Kate Challenges sooner. The end date is now August 15th, and all challenges must be completed before 5:00pm if they are to qualify. Thank you all, keep up with the Kate challenges. Oh, and about the prize. I have figured it out, but it's a surprise:) Tell me if the date changes is not convenient for you.



Happy SUMMER

Party TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How do I throw a party most everyone will enjoy? The answers are here! Throwing a party can be so much fun, but also a lot of work. You are responsible for what goes on during the party, and make sure it gets cleaned up. The best way to throw a party is to include everyone, make it safe, and make sure you have time for everyone invited. Here are some tips:

• Invite people you trust. Don't invite people you think will cause trouble.






• Have a theme. If you stick to it, most likely things wont get to off topic






• Include everyone. Don't leave anyone out of the fun






• Make sure your guest will enjoy the party. Consider their personalities and opinions, make sure they wont be offended or bored

Stick to these simple tips and you'll all enjoy the party! Make sure that there are also refreshments so the guests don't get thirsty or hungry.

Happy PARTYING!

KATE CHALLENGE: Throw a party or a sleepover with a few of your friends. Follow the tips, and at the end of the party, review the guests. If most of them liked it, you get this challenge!!!! Good luck to ALL!!!!!!!!!!

New: Kate Challenges!

Hey Guys! I am now starting this new thing called "Kate Challenges". Each time I write a post, at the end of the post I will come up with a challenge. When you complete a challenge write a comment about how you completed the challenge under the post. Also, you may privatly tell me instead of commenting.The end date is August 15th and whoever has the most completed challenges will WIN A PRIZE (Which I haven’t come up with just yet, and I haven’t figured out if I will be able to get it to you… I figure it out… I hope)

I trust you guys, so please don't cheat or lie. I know you won't, but please don’t take advantage of this.

Rules: None I think, except don't lie or cheat. And the comments for each challenge will be accepted until Aug. 15th. But if there is a tie, the person who completed the challenge first will be able to take the point away from the other person who completed it later.
If any of this is unclear or you have a question just write it in the comments. May the best man/woman win!

Sportless

Do you like to play any sports? I have always thought that being able to play some kind of sport is good for you. especially when you have FUN playing it. Some people play to many to handle, some people play none at all. My advice to all of you is that playing a sport is fun, keeps you fit and is healthy for you. As we get older and keep growing you need to make sure that you can make healthy choices. To the people who don't play any sports I suggest try a few. You never know if you'll like or dislike something. Here are some good sports to try out this summer:

• Soccer







• Baseball







• Basketball







• Volleyball







• Football(brace yourself if you try this one)







• Tennis







• Dodge ball







• Swimming
  

The possibilities are endless, and it may take a while to find one you like. But when you have a good sport and you like to play, you can get really good and it can help you in almost anything. Even school!
And to the people who are like me that has SO many favorite sports, do what I did: find the one sport that you excel at and makes you feel good. You can have more then one; I am not saying it's a bad thing. I love every sport I've ever played. But it's a great idea to focus on one or two sports for your benefit. Also, too many activities can make you tired and not want to do anything.

Alright, so all you guys find your strengths, don't limit or expand to much and keep enjoying the summer!

Moving Out

Moving to a new house can be hard, stressful, and upsetting. Even if your just moving around the corner! I know from personal experience. All day your going and getting stuff from the old house, it either super hot or super cold, everything is everywhere and you are BORED!!! Plus, there may be no Internet for blogging! Anyway, you think that its so terrible now, but just wait. Once you are settled in and comfortable, it will be the best thing you have ever done. You will be in a cleaner bigger house or apartment and I am sure you'll be happy. Summer's here and maybe you will meet some nice neighbors. The best thing to do in the process of moving is work hard stay strong and remember that when its all over, you know you'll be happy.

Thank you everybody!

Summer What to Dos

Hey its FINALLY summertime! I know I haven't been posting, its because of all the school work I had to get done. But WOW now I'll be able to spend more time on my blog, and I hope you guys will too!!! I just moved from my old house, and its been great! I am loving the new environment!







Okay, lets get to the advice! What to do during the summer, is almost every ones problem. Nobody can wait until the summer, and then you are bored all day and have NO idea what to do! Well, here are some great summer activities to try out!

• Go to the beach(OK, I know you knew this one)





• Spend some time with all your siblings! Give 'em some love:)





• Start a business! Make a lemonade stand or a car wash! Anything you want!





• Try something new! Take a piano lesson, or learn to surf!





• Start a club! Get some friends and do some creative activities





• Meet up with your old friends! Say hello to new ones!





• Make your own blog! Or post on your current one:)

The possibilities are endless! So get out side(or get to work inside) and make this summer count!

Have a great summer,

Let's Talk about School!

I bet that title got you guys bored already! Well, This post is just about importance of school. The grades you get and effort you put into learning not only saves you from trouble, but when you understand something in math or science that is complicated, you feel better about your self. The A you get is the A you deserve. It is all your and that makes you feel goo. Am I right? Working hard makes you feel good when you accomplish and when you achieve. All you need is a ready to learn mind, a good teacher, an interest and confidence and you are ready to go!

Work hard,

Tired EVERY Day!

Sleep is a very important thing for humans to receive. A lot of kids like to stay up as late as they want. This isn't good for you or anyone else. I suggest get your self a good "bedtime" so you don't stay up to late and hurt yourself. As you get older, you also tend to change on how long it takes you to get sleepy. If you used to go to sleep at nine o'clock, now you probably fall asleep at around eleven. That is normal, but it is still good to try and get yourself into the habit of going to sleep earlier, for your sake:)

Little Late, Kate

I know I haven't posted in such a long time! I never have anytime doing school work! But you know what? Advice giving KATE needs advice. This will not be a contest, but still try your best!

I, Kate Ask, am losing a REALLY, REALLY good friend. Actually, you might know her. Her name is Kel. She is moving to another state, pretty far from me, and I am really, really sad. I know I will still see her a lot, but I might not. I need advice. She has comforted me a lot so much, I want to also thank her for being my best friend.

Yours Truly,

Winner!!!!

Ok, ok. I know I am a whole week late on the winner. It was a hard decision!











Okay, you got me. I forgot. I have a lot of school stuff going on. Next I won't be late. Promise.











But I am proud to announce the contest winner is..........................................................................











STRINGS OF FUN!!!!!!!!!!!











Congratulations Stringy!!!!! Here is the winning comment:







I would say let the sun shine brighten your day and hope that your day gets better as you go throughout the day. A friend cares about you, a friend talks to you, and a friend also does a lot of things with you. More than a friend is somebody that does nice things and for you to be cheered up and just try your best to stay your self and to remain to have a positive day.







Thank you for all of the wonderful entries!!!!!!!! Till next problem,

For My friend, Lilly

More advice that is what I like best! Here is the comment Lilly has posted for me to answer:

Kate this is Lilly having problems again with my mom every time i try to do something right and if she checks it then does not understand it. She does not trust me very much and she does not give me a chance to turn my life around because yesterday she got mad and then the next thing that i know is that she is angry with me and grades. I don't know what to do, need your help NOW. Lilly

Lilly, like I have said before, give your Mom a chance too. If you are having trouble, have a private talk with her. She is you Mom, she will care about you forever, and that is what she is here for. Next time you aren't catching on to what you are doing, talk to your Mom about it. Tell her how you are feeling. There is one last piece of advice I have to give you. If you want to have a closer relationship with your Mom, I suggest start a Journal for both you and your Mom to write in. You write an entry and she responds, or she writes an entry and you respond. This really helps with arguments, because it leaves out yelling and crying. That's all I've got folks!

CONTEST!!!! Valentine's Special!!!!!

Alright I haven't posted in a really long time, so let's take a moment to silently forgive my wrong-doing.











But I really wanted to kick back on with a contest! So Here is the contest Criteria:











Mabel is really sad on valentines day because no one ever gives a card to her. She doesn't give them any either, so no one likes her that much. Write a little message that you would put in a card to Mabel. It must contain some advice to her on how to make her feel better, and of course it must be nice and be like a valentine. Good Luck!










Alright, I think this will be an easy one for you guys. It is past valentines day , but you get cards throughout the week so I am giving you until Monday! Good Luck all of you,

50th POST!!!!!!!

Here is my 50the post!!!! I wanted to do something really special, but I wasn't sure what to do! But I finally decided to do it on cyber bullying, because I am part of the cyber world. Cyber bullying is like bullying, but on the Internet. If someone is putting rude comments about you or insulting you on the Internet, I think that cyber bullying is the worst because many people can see it if its on a public site. Its humiliating, but that's the way it is. Sometimes the bully might be anonymously doing it so they won't get in trouble. My advice is to ignore it, because the bully will realize it has no affect on you and leave you alone. Also you should go to an adult you trust. They won't make it worse, in fact they might even stop it.

I also have an important announcement. My sister, Ari, has also accomplished the goal of creating a blog. She wanted me to inform you that it is open to all, and It would make her happy if you would check it out. It's called "Young Writer", here is the link:

http://ari-youngwriter.blogspot.com/

Thank you all,

Here is a Post on What to do if You Have a Problem Like Me

My problem is that I always forget to eat breakfast. Then, I get hungry and I NEED food when there's none. Maybe this is only a personal problem, but I really need to stop. If you don't eat breakfast, you metabolism doesn't get started(That's a real word, my mom says it ALL THE TIME!!:)) Anyway, my advice is to make a chart of things to do every day. Do it order of which they go in, and check it off as you do it. Reward yourself when your done, and then if you keep doing it, your so used to it you don't need the chart anymore. Its as simple as that! You can also use this system for anything, teeth brushing, shower, taking a walk, not even health issues either.

Hope you all remember ;)

Been awhile... Here's some advice for you!:)

It has been along while, hope you all enjoyed the Christmas vacation! I received this comment from strings of fun:

Dear Kate,
I am still having problems with my mom and sister what do I do? They blocked me from face book and i can't even go to basketball or mutual. Every time i do something that is not Right I get yelled at by my mom. I just wish that she could see how truely sorry i am and that she could also see that i am giving this UTVA program 110% not then is it to much to ask for? Please, Please Help me. I don't know what to do and i am stressed out because of finals and i just feel like giving up right now. What do you think that i should do? Need help right away

I understand what you are going through completely. A lot of stress and your family is some how against you. The best thing to do is instead of keeping these problems inside of you is to tell your family. Tell your mom how you are feeling, that your upset she is seems angry with you when you try your best. They'll understand if you just talk to them at a nice quiet time, try not to yell at each other. I sometimes have these things with my mom too, I know its hard. Just go and talk to your mom and tell her what you are thinking and feeling. She'll understand:)